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Secrets of the Divine

From Victim to Warrior

From Victim to Warrior

The most vivid amount of growth usually comes after moments where we really hit the ground. I’m talking about moments that can affect our self esteem like a break up, a blotched interview, a failure to meet others or our own expectations. Our self worth takes a hit. Since Sensitives, Empaths, Healers, Introverts and HSPs feel everything, it’s easy to fall into sadness and “why me” in times of stress because our own internal defenses have been shaken. For example, if I prepare for a meeting and then no one buys into what I’ve tried to say or sell, I can go down a really scary path at blaming myself for the bad outcome. These moments that hit our self esteem have a power to make us or break us. I have a choice. I can allow my mind to be filled with negative self talk and blame the person I was meeting with for making my life harder, or blame my day or blame myself for not being prepared OR I can shift my perspective on the matter to something useful and positive.

What really helps is when energy alchemists make the conscious energetic shift from victim to warrior. In times of pain, don’t cry “why me.” Search for the better version of yourself – the divine version of you that is strong, intuitive and savvy; the you that can pull you out of any mess and remind you of your true confident nature. You came here to learn and the greatest amount of growth happens when we fail. It happens when we’re challenged. Accept the ups and downs of life and meet adversity with a healthy curiosity of discovering the lesson rather than getting muddles self misery.

 Pull yourself out of the road to victimhood by:

Forgiving yourself for past mistakes. We’re only human and we all make mistakes in life. I’ll tell you a secret, none of us know what we’re doing. We just do our best and if we fall, we get back up.

Accepting your flaws and imperfections. “They” might not like you and rather than being sad about it CELEBRATE IT. Do you want people in your life who don’t accept your weirdness and coolness? People that are hard to be around? I don’t. It sounds miserable to actually have to work at friendship.

When I meet someone who doesn’t fit with me, I’m happy for it. By accepting ALL OF YOU and showing up you’re attracting your people and repelling those who don’t flow with you. I like to think of it as a natural energy test. My energy is mine and I’m gong to be me, if you don’t like it, it’s OK. Others will pass my test and we’ll be BFFs. It’s actually quite practical. Take control. Be perfectly imperfect and find those out there that will love you for all of it.

Knowing that being alone is ok. As Sensitives, Empaths, HSPs, introverts and healers we definitely need alone time. There’s a difference between being alone and feeling lonely. If you feel lonely, do some deep digging and use that innate intuitive power you’ve got to cast self awareness and healing over yourself. Do this in a sacred space on your own time through meditation and writing. It’s OK to set time aside for yourself. Respect the time and space you need. Do you think warriors can fight and be baddass 24/7? No. We need down time. So do you, dear goddess.

Having faith. Believe that at some point, these hard times will bring about amazing lessons and you will feel complete again. It just takes time. Don’t lose hope. Something better is waiting for you.


Remember that you’re a powerful divine entity with the ability to sway energy in your favor. Use what you were born with. Instead of using your energy to play the victim, use your divine energy to manifest the warrior. Manifest your light and direct it to help you survive any darkness. Items to help you with reigniting your power include:

Tiger’s Eye Spiral Sphere | Tiger’s Eye is great for engaging in brave and courageous feats.

High Vibe Mood and Aura Smudge Spray | Double purpose spray, cleanse your doubts and lift your energy

Citrine Heart Abundance | Add a dash of motivational prowess to your home or office to call in your goddess self



Mar 13, 2018

I have since I was 5 years old had a connection to something Superior being. I feel too deeply I love too deeply I have empathy and love for everyone especially people who struggle like I do we are all worthy and we should not let our family or people that think that if you don’t do it a certain way you’re not worthy of it. I am going through a very hard time right now self-esteem and everything only because I owe hell my mom and others negative attitude or their judgment on addicts are people that are less fortunate them get to me when I can’t change them but I can change me I do need this so much in my life no more victim

Beverly Faulkner
Mar 08, 2018

Hello Cindi,

I’m a firm believer in God/Source and I believe He gives us these gifts for a reason and it’s all a part of our journey as sensitives. Believe in yourself and the intuition, empathy, compassion that you were born with. It all has a higher purpose. <3

Mar 08, 2018

I’ve been coming to the conclusion that I may be an empath from a very early age there are many things about my feelings and intuition that I have not been able to explain to myself or other people, I’m trying to feel Where I Belong at this time and most importantly to help myself and many others I do believe in God as my higher power and I pray this is no way upsets him

Cindi O'Connor

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